Another story to share...
Mar 18th, 2009 by 張小嫻
好多年前有一天，我住的大廈停電，沒有電梯。那時，剛好有個朋友住在我隔壁那幢大廈，他二話不說就爬上二十幾層樓來找我，然後陪我走下去。走下去容易，爬上來可辛苦了，事隔多年，我已經不記得小個子的他那個氣喘咻咻的模樣，但我感動依然。他是我的舊同事，年紀雖然比我大了一截，但我們一向很談得來，完全沒有男女之情。
我們還是同事的時候，有一次，大夥在電視台熬夜，離開的時候，已經是半夜了。那時，組裡只有我一個女孩子，我住得很遠，他和另一個男同事竟然主動送我回家。他們沒有車，不順路，也沒有義務送我回家，但他們卻願意在寂靜的夜晚陪我坐公車回家。
在他們身上，我看到了男性的光輝。我住的地方並不僻靜，也不危險，即使是後來的那一天，電梯壞了，我自己走下去也不成問題，但他們就是覺得女孩子是需要保護的。
不是每一個男人都是這麼想的。另一個男同事，是我的上司，也是朋友，我們那時是天南地北，無所不談的朋友。一天晚上，我和他，還有另外一男一女四個人熬夜開會。散會時，已經是半夜三點鐘，我和他兩個站在無人的街上一邊等車一邊聊天。一輛計程車駛來，他飛快地打開車門，跟我說了一聲再見就關上車門，丟下我一個人。望著車子絕塵而去的一刻，我真的是當場呆了。
我雖不至於弱質纖纖，看上去也並不楚楚可憐，但我無論如何也不會像女泰山、女黑俠或者女騎警吧？他不是應該把車讓給我，然後等下一部車嗎？
我不要求所有男人都有風度，但是，要是他有風度，我會覺得，這個男人還是不錯的。
所以，那天聽到一個男人說：「女人為什麼覺得男朋友理所當然要送她們回家啊？」我真的以為我聽錯了，我的驚訝不會少於我多年前那個晚上一個人被丟下等另一輛計程車的時候。
男人為什麼不應該送女朋友回家？
要是他怕黑，要是他女朋友比他健碩，他覺得她一個人深夜回家也不會有什麼危險，那麼，他大可以不送。
我不認為男人每一次約會後都應該送女朋友回家。當他還有工作要做，當他第二天要早起，當他很累，女人還是會很體貼地說：「我自己回家可以了，你不要送我。」
這時，他叮囑她：「你到家之後打電話給我。」
那是戀愛中一份甜蜜的叮嚀。
到家之後，她打電話給她，告訴他：「我到家了啊。」
這句話，也是戀愛中最甜蜜的其中一句話。
要是她在預定的時間還沒到家，他會焦急地打電話給她，生怕她出了什麼意外。當她聽到他思念的聲音，她心裡是甜的。
什麼是拍拖？就只是見面吃飯看電影嗎？他送她回家的這部分，不也是拍拖的一部分嗎？回家的路，是尾聲，也是幸福的時刻。
夜已深了，這天晚上，陪你到最後，依依惜別。每一次，我和你，總是說了再見，卻又回頭再看一眼，微笑再說一遍再見。
他總是要看著她走進屋裡才轉身離去，而她一進屋裡總是立刻飛奔到窗前，看著他離去的背影，直到他消失在她的視線裡。
兩個人在一起，就是共同擁有每一次的相聚和每一次離別的背影。
Saturday, March 21, 2009
Wednesday, March 18, 2009
bad temper
My mood always not too good in this week, angry easily...Will angry even a small matter although i don't show it out but i know i bo syok..
What happen to me? I not too sure about the cause but i must control myself.
What happen to me? I not too sure about the cause but i must control myself.
Tuesday, March 17, 2009
My Fate...
At first i plan to write this blog in Mandarin because somebody don't know how to read Mandarin, so i won't be teased, but just too lazy to type. My speed is slow. :p Don't worry la..i won't write your story in my blog anymore..so don't worry..steady :p
I gonna attend another interview on this Thursday (at first it is schedule on next Monday). This is my old company, i should feel comfortable with it but i feel a bit nervous. I start to worry that the interviewer might persecute me as I'm ex staff. Worry that how much they might pay me. They told me that mostly they will give me my old basic. Haih..Actually i don't care so much things already..The economy is poor now, i can't be so choosy. I just hope that i can pass my ACCA smoothly. I really scare that i'll be part of unemployed.
Haih..Just be positive thinking! Believe what i've read in the Secret. Law of Attraction and Law of Gravity! With positive mindset and feeling then your wish will comes true. SY, u can made it!! Believe yourself! Good Luck to me!!! Friends, please give me lots of support!
p/s: i ate a lot of crab..dunno will itchy and reddish spot on my body or not..scare scare...
I gonna attend another interview on this Thursday (at first it is schedule on next Monday). This is my old company, i should feel comfortable with it but i feel a bit nervous. I start to worry that the interviewer might persecute me as I'm ex staff. Worry that how much they might pay me. They told me that mostly they will give me my old basic. Haih..Actually i don't care so much things already..The economy is poor now, i can't be so choosy. I just hope that i can pass my ACCA smoothly. I really scare that i'll be part of unemployed.
Haih..Just be positive thinking! Believe what i've read in the Secret. Law of Attraction and Law of Gravity! With positive mindset and feeling then your wish will comes true. SY, u can made it!! Believe yourself! Good Luck to me!!! Friends, please give me lots of support!
p/s: i ate a lot of crab..dunno will itchy and reddish spot on my body or not..scare scare...
Sunday, March 15, 2009
Missing you...
Maybe i read a lot of articles about love recently..that's why i found that my recent blogs mostly related to love matter..Anyway,i'm not like the dizzysoldercruch's comment..haha..Thanks on your caring :p
Yeah..another story to share...Of course this is my idol 張小嫻's work, an old post. :)
你說：「想像假如我現在已經沒有什麼想愛的人，那該多好？不用受牽掛之苦，也不用傷心。」
不用受牽掛之苦，可也沒有牽掛的甜蜜。
有一個可以牽掛的人，畢竟是幸福的。
愛上一個人，也就是從今開始有了一個牽掛的人，也被人牽掛著。他的身影總是盤踞在你心頭，你會每天想起他很多遍，想著他這一刻正在做什麼，你會等他的電話，你會想聽到他的聲音，想挨著他的肩膀，想見到他的臉，想伸手摸摸他的鼻子，想知道他今天過得好不好。
當他不在身邊，在另一個城市，你總是時時刻刻惦著你和他之間的時差，用思念把時差補滿。
愛情，就是彼此永不止息的思念，是永遠放不下的牽掛，是心甘情願的牽絆。
你問：「可不可以不要牽掛一個人？那種滋味太苦了。」
苦的，不是牽掛，而是沒有應答的牽掛。當你牽掛他的時候，他並沒有牽掛你。他從來不像你牽掛他那樣牽掛著你。
苦的，是沒有歸途的牽掛，從此以後，他牽掛的是另一個人。後來的一天，你牽掛的，也將是另一個人。
曾經眷戀的身影已然遠去，但我們永遠不會忘記牽掛著一個人的那份深情，不會忘記當時的自己。
愛裡的甜蜜與苦楚，說的往往是同一句話。
一起的時候，你甜絲絲地問他：「你有沒有想我？」
他微笑回你：「你說呢？我怎麼會沒有想你？」
分手的時候，你流著淚問：「你有沒有想我？」
有？沒有？有又怎樣？沒有又怎樣？是不是如果有的話，會沒那麼苦？
If manage to found somebody you like and he/she likes you as well, it will be a great and happy incident. On the other hand, lovesick will be suffering, because no matter how much you miss him, he won't know or appreciate that.
When i care for somebody, i'll send him text to assure that he is fine over there. When i fall in love, i'll miss him from day to night. A simple text from him already can cheer up my day. A simple word - miss you already made me in sweet mode. Ha!
Recently a guy told me that i'm important for him and would like to further our relationship. I totally get shock..Of course we are not together at last. Actually i quite like him last time and always hope that he will notice about me one day. After years, my dream had come true but i only realise that i no longer miss him and i can't feel that his feeling towards me. Maybe my mind is overwrite my heart for the another time.
I still looking for the feeling that you asking me "do you miss me?" and i reply "I miss you" from the bottom of my heart. A simple word already cause me happy for the day as i know you miss me over there too. :)
Miss the right person. Please don't miss your ex after break up. Ha!
Yeah..another story to share...Of course this is my idol 張小嫻's work, an old post. :)
你說：「想像假如我現在已經沒有什麼想愛的人，那該多好？不用受牽掛之苦，也不用傷心。」
不用受牽掛之苦，可也沒有牽掛的甜蜜。
有一個可以牽掛的人，畢竟是幸福的。
愛上一個人，也就是從今開始有了一個牽掛的人，也被人牽掛著。他的身影總是盤踞在你心頭，你會每天想起他很多遍，想著他這一刻正在做什麼，你會等他的電話，你會想聽到他的聲音，想挨著他的肩膀，想見到他的臉，想伸手摸摸他的鼻子，想知道他今天過得好不好。
當他不在身邊，在另一個城市，你總是時時刻刻惦著你和他之間的時差，用思念把時差補滿。
愛情，就是彼此永不止息的思念，是永遠放不下的牽掛，是心甘情願的牽絆。
你問：「可不可以不要牽掛一個人？那種滋味太苦了。」
苦的，不是牽掛，而是沒有應答的牽掛。當你牽掛他的時候，他並沒有牽掛你。他從來不像你牽掛他那樣牽掛著你。
苦的，是沒有歸途的牽掛，從此以後，他牽掛的是另一個人。後來的一天，你牽掛的，也將是另一個人。
曾經眷戀的身影已然遠去，但我們永遠不會忘記牽掛著一個人的那份深情，不會忘記當時的自己。
愛裡的甜蜜與苦楚，說的往往是同一句話。
一起的時候，你甜絲絲地問他：「你有沒有想我？」
他微笑回你：「你說呢？我怎麼會沒有想你？」
分手的時候，你流著淚問：「你有沒有想我？」
有？沒有？有又怎樣？沒有又怎樣？是不是如果有的話，會沒那麼苦？
If manage to found somebody you like and he/she likes you as well, it will be a great and happy incident. On the other hand, lovesick will be suffering, because no matter how much you miss him, he won't know or appreciate that.
When i care for somebody, i'll send him text to assure that he is fine over there. When i fall in love, i'll miss him from day to night. A simple text from him already can cheer up my day. A simple word - miss you already made me in sweet mode. Ha!
Recently a guy told me that i'm important for him and would like to further our relationship. I totally get shock..Of course we are not together at last. Actually i quite like him last time and always hope that he will notice about me one day. After years, my dream had come true but i only realise that i no longer miss him and i can't feel that his feeling towards me. Maybe my mind is overwrite my heart for the another time.
I still looking for the feeling that you asking me "do you miss me?" and i reply "I miss you" from the bottom of my heart. A simple word already cause me happy for the day as i know you miss me over there too. :)
Miss the right person. Please don't miss your ex after break up. Ha!
Tuesday, March 10, 2009
會不會遇到很愛很愛的人？
I fall in love with 張小嫻's article recently...found this article..it makes me think a lot of things after reading it..share share with you all here...
算命師說，一個人什麼時候結婚、什麼時候分手，都能算出來。
真有那麼神奇嗎？ 好奇的我禁不住問：「要是當一個算命師算出這個客人什麼時候結婚，也同時看到她將來會離婚，那麼，他會誠實告訴她嗎？」
算命師說：「會老實告訴客人啊！要不要幫你算算？」
呵呵，我不算命。
要是知道會分手，我也許還是會跟這個人戀愛。但是，要是早知道會離婚，我為什麼還要結婚？為什麼要麻煩自己、麻煩別人，也麻煩了兩家人？
明知道會分手，還是要愛這個人，因為，你享受那個過程。可我從來沒聽過一個離了婚的人說：「我享受那個過程。」
明知道會分手而還是跟這個人相愛，是浪漫。但是，有哪個笨蛋明知道會離婚卻還是跟這個人跑去結婚？
當我們長大了，當我們不那麼年輕了，我們終於很傷心地發現，人是會跟自己不愛的人結婚。然而，即使是這樣的人，也沒想過要離婚。
有些人比較幸運，一生中很愛的不只一人。另一些人沒那麼幸運，一生中說不上很愛很愛一個人，但最後還是跑去結婚了。
人到底會不會遇到很愛很愛的人？要一直等下去，還是乾脆不等了？因為時間和青春也不等人。
愛情到底是不是宿命的？
這些問題，從來沒有答案。這些問題，也不是用來回答，而是去經歷的。
After i read this, i think of 1 person, he just married, but the bride is not somebody he loves. We asked him that why he would like to choose this path as he still young. He replied that because he has no chance to get his ms right. Feel sorrow to listen this but we know that he is happy now and enjoying his marriage life. On the other hand, we not dare to ask the gal why she marry a guy which she never meet before...
The society is different with old time, but the percentage of single person become higher and higher from year to year especially in advance country. Is this a trend for current environment? Normally most of the successful woman are single nowadays, is this due to the guy feel shame to after a strong woman or woman become more and more materialistic?
愛情到底是不是宿命? I don't know.. If you found somebody you love, just express your feeling, no matter what's the result, whether is what you expected or not, at least you try..no regret! :) Sometime, those sifu words can change a people's life..believe or not up to you. My friend told me that face and palm reading are forbidden in Buddhism. Due to this, believe yourselves and create your own future.
算命師說，一個人什麼時候結婚、什麼時候分手，都能算出來。
真有那麼神奇嗎？ 好奇的我禁不住問：「要是當一個算命師算出這個客人什麼時候結婚，也同時看到她將來會離婚，那麼，他會誠實告訴她嗎？」
算命師說：「會老實告訴客人啊！要不要幫你算算？」
呵呵，我不算命。
要是知道會分手，我也許還是會跟這個人戀愛。但是，要是早知道會離婚，我為什麼還要結婚？為什麼要麻煩自己、麻煩別人，也麻煩了兩家人？
明知道會分手，還是要愛這個人，因為，你享受那個過程。可我從來沒聽過一個離了婚的人說：「我享受那個過程。」
明知道會分手而還是跟這個人相愛，是浪漫。但是，有哪個笨蛋明知道會離婚卻還是跟這個人跑去結婚？
當我們長大了，當我們不那麼年輕了，我們終於很傷心地發現，人是會跟自己不愛的人結婚。然而，即使是這樣的人，也沒想過要離婚。
有些人比較幸運，一生中很愛的不只一人。另一些人沒那麼幸運，一生中說不上很愛很愛一個人，但最後還是跑去結婚了。
人到底會不會遇到很愛很愛的人？要一直等下去，還是乾脆不等了？因為時間和青春也不等人。
愛情到底是不是宿命的？
這些問題，從來沒有答案。這些問題，也不是用來回答，而是去經歷的。
After i read this, i think of 1 person, he just married, but the bride is not somebody he loves. We asked him that why he would like to choose this path as he still young. He replied that because he has no chance to get his ms right. Feel sorrow to listen this but we know that he is happy now and enjoying his marriage life. On the other hand, we not dare to ask the gal why she marry a guy which she never meet before...
The society is different with old time, but the percentage of single person become higher and higher from year to year especially in advance country. Is this a trend for current environment? Normally most of the successful woman are single nowadays, is this due to the guy feel shame to after a strong woman or woman become more and more materialistic?
愛情到底是不是宿命? I don't know.. If you found somebody you love, just express your feeling, no matter what's the result, whether is what you expected or not, at least you try..no regret! :) Sometime, those sifu words can change a people's life..believe or not up to you. My friend told me that face and palm reading are forbidden in Buddhism. Due to this, believe yourselves and create your own future.
Sunday, March 8, 2009
Congrats!
From facebook, i knew that you already found your ms right. Congratulation! She is a pretty gal and fashionable. Glad to hear that both of you have same thought and goals..I think with this characteristic, both of you can together long. :)
Saturday, March 7, 2009
Continue..
After i finished the blog, i found this article, written by 張小嫻. Cut and paste some part of the article. Quite true..I feel that this is not only from gal's view but from guy's view too..Just treat is as a sweet sweet dream then will happy always.
有些夢，最好永遠不要醒來。
我們都難免做著夢。有些女人以為她愛的男人天才橫溢，只是懷才不遇，時不我予。這個夢最好不要醒吧？
有些女人以為她愛著的男人最愛是她，這一生，他只愛她一人。這個夢，也最好不要醒吧？
有些女人以為自己生活在幸福裡。這個夢，也是不要醒來的好。
我們有時會嘲笑別人的夢，甚至忍心戳破別人的美夢，卻不認為自己也做著夢。
大夢誰先覺？
人都害怕做噩夢，美夢卻也許更難消受。噩夢最可怕的是醒過來的一刻，然後你會慶幸，只是一場夢。然而，一旦從美夢中醒來，看到自己一直沒看到的現實，人生的信念是不是一下子全都崩潰了？
可不可以，就當我們都住在一個做夢的星球上，我們坐在這個星球的表面上，快樂地晃著兩條腿，看著日升月落，看著漫天散落的星塵，並不知道是夢？我們是別人的夢，別人也在我們的夢裡，那多好啊。
有些夢，最好永遠不要醒來。
我們都難免做著夢。有些女人以為她愛的男人天才橫溢，只是懷才不遇，時不我予。這個夢最好不要醒吧？
有些女人以為她愛著的男人最愛是她，這一生，他只愛她一人。這個夢，也最好不要醒吧？
有些女人以為自己生活在幸福裡。這個夢，也是不要醒來的好。
我們有時會嘲笑別人的夢，甚至忍心戳破別人的美夢，卻不認為自己也做著夢。
大夢誰先覺？
人都害怕做噩夢，美夢卻也許更難消受。噩夢最可怕的是醒過來的一刻，然後你會慶幸，只是一場夢。然而，一旦從美夢中醒來，看到自己一直沒看到的現實，人生的信念是不是一下子全都崩潰了？
可不可以，就當我們都住在一個做夢的星球上，我們坐在這個星球的表面上，快樂地晃著兩條腿，看著日升月落，看著漫天散落的星塵，並不知道是夢？我們是別人的夢，別人也在我們的夢裡，那多好啊。
I just like u alone!!
My friend told me that his gf found a new 1 already and is time for him to let go and get a new one. Although this is just a simple words but made me think a lot of things..make me think of all those 山盟海誓 made during the courtship, I just will like you alone no matter what happen..bla bla bla...
When the outcome is not what you expected, then people will tend to calculate..It let me think of one of the phrase spoken by 窝可 in gem of life. His role in this drama is a guy who don't care whether his dream gal likes him or not, as long as he can stay there and do something for her then he will satisfy, that's all. But until the end of drama. he starts to calculate already..and said this phrase - 其实我跟其他人一样，我一边谈情一边在计算..Actually every human is like that..That's no right or wrong..At least you know what you are doing, that's enough.
Conclusion is when the relationship comes to the end, all the promises become zero. Nothing to sad actually, just go forward.. Some people might get a new 1 fast, some slow..Some even will simply pat toh with guy/gal who likes them when there are single...A lot of people out there with different characteristic..What i not appreciate most is ...aiya..not my matter also..
Friend, just continue your journey :) Don't think of the fool decision you have made last time, at least you enjoy all the process and moment together in the past.. No regret! Be a better person, i know you can make it :) Create your Malaysia Dream ;)
When the outcome is not what you expected, then people will tend to calculate..It let me think of one of the phrase spoken by 窝可 in gem of life. His role in this drama is a guy who don't care whether his dream gal likes him or not, as long as he can stay there and do something for her then he will satisfy, that's all. But until the end of drama. he starts to calculate already..and said this phrase - 其实我跟其他人一样，我一边谈情一边在计算..Actually every human is like that..That's no right or wrong..At least you know what you are doing, that's enough.
Conclusion is when the relationship comes to the end, all the promises become zero. Nothing to sad actually, just go forward.. Some people might get a new 1 fast, some slow..Some even will simply pat toh with guy/gal who likes them when there are single...A lot of people out there with different characteristic..What i not appreciate most is ...aiya..not my matter also..
Friend, just continue your journey :) Don't think of the fool decision you have made last time, at least you enjoy all the process and moment together in the past.. No regret! Be a better person, i know you can make it :) Create your Malaysia Dream ;)
Wednesday, March 4, 2009
Tuesday, March 3, 2009
涂鸦
今天身体有点不舒服 。。。 觉得有些闷闷的。。
又中Tag啦，哈哈哈！I think this is the hottest tag in facebook now. Ha..Copy n paste over here n start to play this game..anyone who view my blog are welcome to join this loop :p
1. If you could spend one Ringgit in 5 minutes, what would you spend on?
Choc or ice-cream :P
2. What is your most favourite thing to do?
Relax :)
3.if you are given a chance to reverse your life,will you back to the past?
过去的就让它去吧, i look for future 1..keke..
4. What would u do if u were to die tomorrow?
Have a nice dinner together with my family and friends.
5. Is there someone in your heart right now?
Of course! Family...
6. Do you feel loved in this world?
Yes, always. My family and friends love me so so so so much :)
7. What are you afraid to lose the most?
Family and my friends
8. What do you feel like doing right now?
Rest and travel.
9. If there’s someone that you love, would you confess to him/her?
No, timid n useless fellow :(
10. List 5 things that u like in a guy/girl.
Nice, polite, humble, understanding, funny, knowledgeable
11. What are the requirements that you wish from your other half?
每天都安康 n happy always :)
12. What do you think is your purpose in life?
Life is short, enjoy it :)
13. Do you feel like killing someone at the moment?
don't want to waste my time and energy.
14. If you had to eat one thing for the rest of your life, what would it be?
Dunno leh..so much nice food out there..
15. If you had a choice to be rich or happy, which one would you pick?
Happy, i always appreciate :)
16. If you have a chance, which part of your character you would like to change?
bcome smarter :P
17. What is the most prized possession that you wish you can bring to Heaven?
I believe everything are available there, leave it for my family and friends.
18. Name one love song that you have in mind and why?
Angel brought me here..my forever love song...
19.What makes you feel happy?
A lot of things..from minor to big 1..
20.How much you will told the people if he/she ask you how much is you ?
My life is priceless, same to everybody out there...
又中Tag啦，哈哈哈！I think this is the hottest tag in facebook now. Ha..Copy n paste over here n start to play this game..anyone who view my blog are welcome to join this loop :p
1. If you could spend one Ringgit in 5 minutes, what would you spend on?
Choc or ice-cream :P
2. What is your most favourite thing to do?
Relax :)
3.if you are given a chance to reverse your life,will you back to the past?
过去的就让它去吧, i look for future 1..keke..
4. What would u do if u were to die tomorrow?
Have a nice dinner together with my family and friends.
5. Is there someone in your heart right now?
Of course! Family...
6. Do you feel loved in this world?
Yes, always. My family and friends love me so so so so much :)
7. What are you afraid to lose the most?
Family and my friends
8. What do you feel like doing right now?
Rest and travel.
9. If there’s someone that you love, would you confess to him/her?
No, timid n useless fellow :(
10. List 5 things that u like in a guy/girl.
Nice, polite, humble, understanding, funny, knowledgeable
11. What are the requirements that you wish from your other half?
每天都安康 n happy always :)
12. What do you think is your purpose in life?
Life is short, enjoy it :)
13. Do you feel like killing someone at the moment?
don't want to waste my time and energy.
14. If you had to eat one thing for the rest of your life, what would it be?
Dunno leh..so much nice food out there..
15. If you had a choice to be rich or happy, which one would you pick?
Happy, i always appreciate :)
16. If you have a chance, which part of your character you would like to change?
bcome smarter :P
17. What is the most prized possession that you wish you can bring to Heaven?
I believe everything are available there, leave it for my family and friends.
18. Name one love song that you have in mind and why?
Angel brought me here..my forever love song...
19.What makes you feel happy?
A lot of things..from minor to big 1..
20.How much you will told the people if he/she ask you how much is you ?
My life is priceless, same to everybody out there...
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