Maybe i read a lot of articles about love recently..that's why i found that my recent blogs mostly related to love matter..Anyway,i'm not like the dizzysoldercruch's comment..haha..Thanks on your caring :p
Yeah..another story to share...Of course this is my idol 張小嫻's work, an old post. :)
你說:「想像假如我現在已經沒有什麼想愛的人,那該多好?不用受牽掛之苦,也不用傷心。」
不用受牽掛之苦,可也沒有牽掛的甜蜜。
有一個可以牽掛的人,畢竟是幸福的。
愛上一個人,也就是從今開始有了一個牽掛的人,也被人牽掛著。他的身影總是盤踞在你心頭,你會每天想起他很多遍,想著他這一刻正在做什麼,你會等他的電話,你會想聽到他的聲音,想挨著他的肩膀,想見到他的臉,想伸手摸摸他的鼻子,想知道他今天過得好不好。
當他不在身邊,在另一個城市,你總是時時刻刻惦著你和他之間的時差,用思念把時差補滿。
愛情,就是彼此永不止息的思念,是永遠放不下的牽掛,是心甘情願的牽絆。
你問:「可不可以不要牽掛一個人?那種滋味太苦了。」
苦的,不是牽掛,而是沒有應答的牽掛。當你牽掛他的時候,他並沒有牽掛你。他從來不像你牽掛他那樣牽掛著你。
苦的,是沒有歸途的牽掛,從此以後,他牽掛的是另一個人。後來的一天,你牽掛的,也將是另一個人。
曾經眷戀的身影已然遠去,但我們永遠不會忘記牽掛著一個人的那份深情,不會忘記當時的自己。
愛裡的甜蜜與苦楚,說的往往是同一句話。
一起的時候,你甜絲絲地問他:「你有沒有想我?」
他微笑回你:「你說呢?我怎麼會沒有想你?」
分手的時候,你流著淚問:「你有沒有想我?」
有?沒有?有又怎樣?沒有又怎樣?是不是如果有的話,會沒那麼苦?
If manage to found somebody you like and he/she likes you as well, it will be a great and happy incident. On the other hand, lovesick will be suffering, because no matter how much you miss him, he won't know or appreciate that.
When i care for somebody, i'll send him text to assure that he is fine over there. When i fall in love, i'll miss him from day to night. A simple text from him already can cheer up my day. A simple word - miss you already made me in sweet mode. Ha!
Recently a guy told me that i'm important for him and would like to further our relationship. I totally get shock..Of course we are not together at last. Actually i quite like him last time and always hope that he will notice about me one day. After years, my dream had come true but i only realise that i no longer miss him and i can't feel that his feeling towards me. Maybe my mind is overwrite my heart for the another time.
I still looking for the feeling that you asking me "do you miss me?" and i reply "I miss you" from the bottom of my heart. A simple word already cause me happy for the day as i know you miss me over there too. :)
Miss the right person. Please don't miss your ex after break up. Ha!
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