Tuesday, March 10, 2009

會不會遇到很愛很愛的人?

I fall in love with 張小嫻's article recently...found this article..it makes me think a lot of things after reading it..share share with you all here...

算命師說,一個人什麼時候結婚、什麼時候分手,都能算出來。

真有那麼神奇嗎? 好奇的我禁不住問:「要是當一個算命師算出這個客人什麼時候結婚,也同時看到她將來會離婚,那麼,他會誠實告訴她嗎?」

算命師說:「會老實告訴客人啊!要不要幫你算算?」

呵呵,我不算命。

要是知道會分手,我也許還是會跟這個人戀愛。但是,要是早知道會離婚,我為什麼還要結婚?為什麼要麻煩自己、麻煩別人,也麻煩了兩家人?

明知道會分手,還是要愛這個人,因為,你享受那個過程。可我從來沒聽過一個離了婚的人說:「我享受那個過程。」

明知道會分手而還是跟這個人相愛,是浪漫。但是,有哪個笨蛋明知道會離婚卻還是跟這個人跑去結婚?

當我們長大了,當我們不那麼年輕了,我們終於很傷心地發現,人是會跟自己不愛的人結婚。然而,即使是這樣的人,也沒想過要離婚。

有些人比較幸運,一生中很愛的不只一人。另一些人沒那麼幸運,一生中說不上很愛很愛一個人,但最後還是跑去結婚了。

人到底會不會遇到很愛很愛的人?要一直等下去,還是乾脆不等了?因為時間和青春也不等人。

愛情到底是不是宿命的?

這些問題,從來沒有答案。這些問題,也不是用來回答,而是去經歷的。

After i read this, i think of 1 person, he just married, but the bride is not somebody he loves. We asked him that why he would like to choose this path as he still young. He replied that because he has no chance to get his ms right. Feel sorrow to listen this but we know that he is happy now and enjoying his marriage life. On the other hand, we not dare to ask the gal why she marry a guy which she never meet before...

The society is different with old time, but the percentage of single person become higher and higher from year to year especially in advance country. Is this a trend for current environment? Normally most of the successful woman are single nowadays, is this due to the guy feel shame to after a strong woman or woman become more and more materialistic?

愛情到底是不是宿命? I don't know.. If you found somebody you love, just express your feeling, no matter what's the result, whether is what you expected or not, at least you try..no regret! :) Sometime, those sifu words can change a people's life..believe or not up to you. My friend told me that face and palm reading are forbidden in Buddhism. Due to this, believe yourselves and create your own future.

2 comments:

dizzysoldercrunch said...

i guess u are woman-waiting-in-love?don't u?
all da best yea :D

ahfish said...

eh...u 1 day dun tease me can die ar? kurang pukul nya...